How Can I Stop Getting Attached To Boyfriends Because Of Hpv?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and i’m afraid to lose him because i have hpv and think it will be hard to find and trust someone again. I’ve already put my trust in the wrong guy or else i wouldnt have hpv in the first place. how can i feel secure about sex and relationships again without fearing contracting or spreading hpv?? hellppp
IF you and your boyfriend break up, you should have no problem finding someone to date. MOST people have HPV. Most of them don’t know it, but they do.
I personally don’t think you even have to tell future parnters, especially if it’s been a couple of years since you had HPV. All these people keep saying that you will have this forever and will always be contagious, but the TRUTH is that no one know how long you will contagious and if you are now. There is no way to know.
Did you have the high risk or low risk kind? It’s my personal opinion that women NEVER have to tell their partner if they’ve tested postitive for high risk HPV. Our society treats HPV like it is a fact of life. Men cann get tested, and condoms do not protect you. HPV is just a life risk that women face. Women bear the burden of high risk HPV. (If it was 5% of men getting pieces cut off their penises instead of 5% of women getting pieces removed from their cervixes, don’t you think us women would be getting tested??)
Anyway, I just think that women have to deal with the risks of high risk HPV and now that we are the only ones who get tested, we have the additional burden of “informing” everyone? And the guys that give it to us just get to keep happily spreading it? And even if us women do tell the men we have sex with, will they go on to tell their future partners? Those are the people that really need the information.
Think about it this way: telling your partner, “I might be able to give you HPV” is the EXACT same as saying “I have had sex before.” HPV really is that common.
I suggest you just relax about it. You’ll cross that bridge when you come to it.
As for contracting strains, it really is unfair isn’t it? If women want to have sex ever, we just have to risk it. That has been very difficult for me do deal with. I highly suggest getting Gardasil. It is the only way to protect yourself from HPV. Though it doesn’t protect against all types of HPV, it protects against the strains that cause most issues.
Well. You should use condoms with him, and all of your partners actually. There is a chance your body could shed the virus, because that happens with 95% of hpv cases.
Make sure you are going to your yearly exams, because you need to make sure your hpv does not turn cancerous.
Hpv is particularly hard to trust someone about, because as of right now men cannot be tested for it. So a man who has it might never know he has it.
My best advice is to be honest with all of your partners, because when you become sexually active with someone you are taking their sexual health into your hands, and really, no one has the right to keep potentially life changing information from their sexual partners.
You will find someone who is interested in you, regardless of the hvp. If you wear condoms with them, you will decrease their chances of contracting the disease, but they might still get it over time.
You will always have to be aware of the fact that you can spread the disease, and be honest, and take measures to decrease your chance of spreading it.
Also, be careful who you trust. Plenty of men and women are only into sex for themselves. Its a hard fact, but people don’t always care about each other. Always use protection, and be cautious who you have sex with.
so many people have hpv. it doesnt matter any way because most guys who get it nothing bad happens except warts.
if you have the warty kind then wear a condom and try to not have so much skin contact if the warts are visible
or the cancer kind then who cares guys cant get cervical cancer so it doesnt matter.
plus a guy wouldnt tell you if he had hpv.
you can never feel scure about sex…. …. … if you have sex your gona get pregnate and std. condnoms say 99% when used correctly.. but i kno to many people who used b.c.pill, condoms, foam.. all kinds stuff still got stds and pregnate. just dont have sex or else you gona get stds. if you choose to have sex just give him head, he prefers it anyways. but you will get stds from giving head. i mean im just trying help u, just dont have sex, but if u choose to have sex, u kno whats gona happen. GUYS DONT CARE IF THEY GET STDS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…